What are your views of you? Are they lovely and admirable, do you consistently praise and encourage yourself or do you judge or devalue yourself? And, what does God think of you? Though what you think of you is important and matters more than what others think of you, what God thinks of you- who He thinks and what He says you are- is what matters most.
God’s thoughts towards you are not of evil; His innumerable precious thoughts are of peace to give you hope and a good future. God is always mindful of you! The devil may try to confuse you, the media may mislead you, and people may wrongly label you; DO NOT believe or “think” their lies and do not think of yourself what God does not think of you.
Also, remember, you are what you think. Do you need to change your perception of you? If yes, begin to align your thinking with His; meditate on who He thinks and His word says you are; claim his thoughts towards you and begin to think of yourself what He thinks of you.
Self-identity is largely influenced by what the people close to you think about you. Eliminate self-condemnation by making Jesus the closest person in your life.